Cassandra Wheeler’s journey is one of passion, perseverance, and purpose. Her deep connection to her roots has guided her path, from teaching in local schools to influencing education on a broader scale. Beyond her professional achievements, Cassandra’s unwavering faith has been a cornerstone in navigating life’s challenges, including her role as a full-time caregiver for her mother. She also finds strength and joy in her lifelong friendships and her involvement in Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc., where she has built a powerful sisterhood that continues to uplift and inspire her. In this interview, she shares insights on her career evolution, the impact of faith, and her perspective on aging with purpose and joy.
BOOM: You have deep roots in Montgomery and an impressive career path. Can you share your journey—where you’re from, your education, and what has kept you connected to this community?
Cassandra: I’m originally from Camden, AL, in Wilcox County, where both sides of my family have deep roots. My parents met in New York, though they grew up in Camden and had similar backgrounds—my dad was the quarterback and my mom was a majorette, but they didn’t really connect until years later. After moving all over with my dad’s military career, we finally settled in Montgomery when I was just one year old. I grew up on Maxwell AFB and attended schools like Peter Crump Elementary and Sidney Lanier High School, though I still find it weird that those schools no longer exist.
I went to UAB for college, following in my sister’s footsteps, and there was no doubt that I’d become a teacher. After college, I wanted to stay in Birmingham, but things took a different turn. My dad, working as a mail carrier, helped me land my first teaching job when the principal at Morningview Elementary recognized my last name. From there, I worked my way up, becoming a reading specialist and moving to the Alabama State Department of Education. Now, I’m working in educational publishing, which still impacts children’s education every day. Everything I’ve done has led me right here to this moment.
BOOM: Faith plays a central role in your life. How has your relationship with God shaped your journey, especially through challenges like caregiving and career shifts?
Cassandra: I don’t even move without God. Faith is the core of everything for me—my family, career, and personal journey. I don’t believe in happenstance; I believe in God’s perfect timing. His guidance and favor are evident in every part of my life. From the people I’ve met to the career shifts I’ve made, it’s all been orchestrated by God. I’ve been blessed with a purpose, and I know I’m here to fulfill it. I’ve learned not to take anything for granted, from small encounters to significant moments. Everything has meaning.
BOOM: Being a full-time caregiver for your mother is a profound responsibility. How has this experience changed you, and what advice would you offer others navigating similar challenges?
Cassandra: Caregiving is not for the faint of heart. When I transitioned to full-time caregiver for my mom in 2020, everything changed—especially since I had been traveling constantly for work before. Suddenly, I was grounded at home, adjusting to a role I had never expected. Being a caregiver has taught me so much about patience, sacrifice, and the importance of a support system. My mom’s illness progressed quickly, and I had to advocate fiercely for her care, navigating doctor visits and arranging home health care.
It was hard, but it’s also been a journey of growth. I never imagined I’d be in this role, but God had prepared me for it, and I’m grateful for the lessons I’ve learned. My advice to others facing caregiving challenges is to have a plan. It’s crucial to have a solid long-term care plan and discuss it with your loved ones while you can. Life is unpredictable, and it’s important to be ready for whatever comes.
BOOM: When your time is so devoted to caring for a loved one, it can be easy to lose yourself. How do you carve out time for self-care, and what brings you joy outside of your caregiving role?
Cassandra: Finding time for myself is tough, but I make it work. I love being social, so I stay active in my circle of friends, but caregiving comes first. It requires a lot of planning. If my mom’s not doing well, I stay home. But when I can get away, I do what makes me happy—whether it’s going out to eat, line dancing, or hanging out with friends. Self-care has been a challenge, but I’ve learned to give myself grace when I fall short.
On my 50th birthday, I had an epiphany that shifted my focus toward my health and longevity. I’m committed to staying healthy and active, which means monitoring what I eat, staying moving, and controlling my mindset. Aging is a mindset, and I want to show up at full capacity in every area of my life, and that takes intention.
BOOM: You began in education and transitioned into publishing, and you are now working in mergers and acquisitions. What inspired this shift, and what has been the most rewarding part of your career?
Cassandra: After 21 years in corporate educational publishing, I can say that every role I’ve taken has been a stepping stone to the next. The most rewarding part of my career was building a team from the ground up during a merger, which was a unique challenge. I had the privilege of handpicking professionals who were new to the corporate world and guiding them through the transition. The team we built together became one of the most successful and high-profile divisions in the company.
Looking back, my career path makes sense now. My experiences in the classroom, at the state level, and in corporate settings all prepared me for where I am today. And even though I’m no longer in a classroom, I’m still teaching every day—just in a different way.
BOOM: You’re actively involved in Alpha Kappa Alpha, including the Southeastern region dance team. How has your sorority—and the lifelong friendships it has fostered—enriched your life over the years?
Cassandra: I’ve been a proud member of Alpha Kappa Alpha for over 30 years, and it’s been a life-changing experience. I pledged at UAB in 1992, and the bonds I’ve built with my sorority sisters have shaped who I am today. Being part of this sisterhood has introduced me to countless women who inspire and uplift me.
My sorority journey has not only deepened my sense of community but also taught me the power of service and the impact we can have on others. What’s amazing about AKA is the support and love we give each other, and I’m proud to be part of such a powerful group of women.
BOOM: You’re not just involved—you’re performing with AKA’s international dance team! When did dance become a passion, and how has staying active contributed to your overall well-being?
Cassandra: Dance is in my blood. Growing up with a dad who was a DJ and a mom who was a majorette, music and movement were always part of my life. I’ve always loved performing—whether it was as a Golden Girl at UAB or leading dance routines for my sorority. I even danced for the Birmingham Bandits CBA team when I was 19! Dancing brings me joy, and I’ve carried that passion with me throughout my life.
Two years ago, I joined my sorority’s national dance team at the age of 50—proving you’re never too old to chase your passions. I’m still performing, and it’s one of the most fulfilling parts of my life. I also love line dancing, and I’ll stay on the dance floor all night if I can. It’s a great way to stay active and have fun, and it’s a wonderful reminder that life’s too short to sit on the sidelines.
BOOM: You recently moved to Pike Road, one of Alabama’s fastest-growing areas. How has it felt to be part of this evolving community, and what excites you most about its future?
Cassandra: I never thought I’d live in Pike Road, but when I made the move, I fell in love with the community. It’s a place where neighbors truly look out for each other. After moving to Pike Road in 2009, I found a group of friends who became like family. We support each other through life’s challenges, and it’s a blessing to have such a tight-knit neighborhood.
Pike Road is growing fast, and I’m excited to see how the area develops. It’s a place where people are genuinely invested in one another, and that sense of community makes it feel like home.
BOOM: You love to travel, but you’ve also mentioned that it can be tricky. What are some of your most memorable trips, and how do you make travel work despite the challenges?
Cassandra: Travel has been a huge part of my life, especially with my 20 years of work that kept me on the road or in the air. I had my travel routine down to a science—three sets of everything, carry-on bags for flexibility, and a bag full of comfort items. After the pandemic, though, travel became more difficult with my caregiving responsibilities, so I’ve had to adjust.
While I no longer travel as frequently, I’ve learned how to make it work with the help of my support system. My upcoming cruise for my 35th high school reunion is a big deal, and I’m excited to reconnect with my classmates. It’s a reminder that even as a caregiver, I can still find ways to enjoy life.
BOOM: You’ve built strong, long-standing relationships with other women. What is the key to maintaining deep, meaningful friendships as life changes and responsibilities grow?
Cassandra: Female friendships are everything to me. My sister and my close friends are the people who know me best and bring out the best in me. These relationships have taught me the importance of support, trust, and mutual respect. As we go through different phases of life—marriage, children, career changes—true friends evolve with you.
I’ve learned that friendships, like any relationship, require effort. But the ones that last are the ones that allow you to be your authentic self. I cherish the bonds I’ve built with women who get me, who I can laugh with, cry with, and share life’s ups and downs.
BOOM: Your journey has included singleness, caregiving, and faith. What perspective has this given you on living a full, purpose-driven life, and what do you wish more people understood about this season?
Cassandra: I didn’t plan on being single at 52, but I’ve come to embrace it. I’ve realized that I lack nothing. Being single is a gift, and I’ve learned to trust God’s plan for my life. I’ve had the opportunity to accomplish so much, and I’ve been able to pour into my career, caregiving, and personal growth. I don’t feel incomplete—I feel whole.
People often ask me why I’m single, but I don’t feel like I’m missing out. God is in control of my life, and I trust His plan. Singleness has allowed me to focus on my personal journey and live a fulfilling life, even if it’s not what I expected.
BOOM: What does “aging well” mean to you, and what advice would you give to others seeking to thrive in their later years?
Cassandra: Aging well starts with the right mindset. It’s about accepting where you are in life, embracing it, and being kind to yourself. Aging doesn’t mean slowing down—it’s about maintaining vitality, staying active, and making healthy choices. I drink water, get moving, detox regularly, and prioritize good sleep. It’s about taking care of my body so I can enjoy life to the fullest. I believe I can stay vibrant and energetic as I grow older.
BOOM: You have a love for music and cinema. What role have these played in your life, and do you have any all-time favorite songs, movies, or performances that have left a lasting impact?
Cassandra: Music and cinema have always been part of my life, from DJing in the 90s to acting in TV shows and movies. Growing up with a dad who was a DJ, I’ve always had a love for music. I was the go-to DJ for every house party, and I even tried my hand at voiceover work and karaoke. It’s a creative outlet that brings me joy, and I still enjoy being part of the entertainment world in small ways.
Whether I’m leading a dance routine or recording a training video, I’ve always loved performing and using my voice in different ways. It’s a passion that keeps me engaged and brings a sense of fulfillment.
BOOM: Looking ahead, what are some personal goals, dreams, or aspirations you’re excited to pursue? What’s next for Cassandra Wheeler?
Cassandra: I’m excited for what the future holds. I trust that God’s plan for me is unfolding exactly as it should. I want to continue growing, learning, and fully embracing every opportunity. There’s so much left to accomplish, and I’m ready to take on whatever comes my way. The best is yet to come.
We want to thank Cassandra for sharing some of her story with us this month. If you have comments or suggestions about our cover profiles, including nominating someone, please text Jason Watson at 334.328.5189 or email jason@riverregionboom.com.